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Spying on him

Let’s be honest. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out that your man is cheating. Once upon a time, your heart was at ease and all was well in paradise. Back then, your man made it clear that you were a top priority, regardless of what was going on in his world. When he said, he was going to hang out with friends, you knew that he wanted you to be right there with him.

Let’s be honest. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out that your man is cheating.

Once upon a time, your heart was at ease and all was well in paradise. Back then, your man made it clear that you were a top priority, regardless of what was going on in his world.

When he said, he was going to hang out with friends, you knew that he wanted you to be right there with him.

If he said he was working late, you could always count on him to call from his workplace, reassuring you that he was on his way home, and that he couldn’t wait to sink his teeth into his favorite dinner and spend some quality time with you.

But now, the tide has turned and something you can’t put your hands on is radically wrong.

Well, ladies, let’s be honest. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out that your man is cheating. In most cases, women are the first to know, but the last to admit it.

Trust your instincts. If you feel something isn’t right with him then definitely something isn’t right.

Though most men know exactly what to say and how to act, your instincts will lead you to the truth. For instance it might be a rare perfume on him, or irregularities in his bank of excuses on why he’s coming home late.

If you start noticing that certain things that, at one time, made sense to him don’t do so anymore, become skeptical.

For instance, cheats tend to forget important occasions and days in their partners’ life. It doesn’t mean that he is cheating if he forgets your birthday once but if it happens several times, start digging deep.

If he suddenly spends lots of time on his looks and appearance, start smelling a rat.

His attention span towards you suddenly drops, and when you mention the fact to him, he becomes extremely furious. Probably this is guilt taking its toll on him.

If he doesn’t care anymore about what you wear to bed, and is not moved by the sexiest lingerie you wear, start wondering.

And if he suddenly becomes the type who does his work at home when its family time or it’s evident that he’s tired every morning be wary.

When you call during the day, he never picks up your phone calls, question that. When his phone logs show that he talked to women very late at night, or he never allows you hold his phone, he is definitely hiding something.

When you ask him about the phone calls, he explodes and warns you not to mess with his private life, beware! Anyway, lf his private life has no skeletons, then why is he bothered?

Is he not affectionate anymore? Is your sex life almost non-existent? He stopped cuddling; you never hold hands, he never introduces you to new friends like he used to—he’s getting some elsewhere.

When you reach the point of no return with your suspicion, start looking through his bank statements or his wallet. The motel bills will kill your curiosity and give you the full picture of who your husband is.

Ladies, there is nothing wrong with a little investigation; it will help you catch a perpetual cheat.

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