When he expects you to read between the lines

A guy will take you out for a lavish night and will buy you gifts with hopes that you will be able to understand his cause and read between the lines. Now that we are getting ready for Jesus’ birthday, many wish to have the best of the season and so they are out there on the hunt. Even when he does not spell out the words, he is saying he wants you with his splendid gifts. Anita [not real name] says she saw this guy on Facebook and later discovered they actually came from the same area so they agreed to meet which was fine because Anita says she loves making new friends in her life. “It started as ‘lets have a cup of coffee and from there let me have only one beer at the next bar’ and like that, the night went on,” recalls Anita. Her friend did not look like those guys that would jump on you at the very minute they had set eyes on you. “He was a gentleman. He bought me lots of drinks and everything I wanted for gifts. Things were like simply going well,” Anita says. “When the moment to take me home came, is when things seemed to make sense to me now, all this while from taking his beers at the bar and buying me stuff was only a trick to buy himself time to prolong the night,” says Anita. She says that when the guy finally realized that he could not get anything from her, he decided to drop her off and left with in such a bad mood one would think the two had fought over a breeched agreement. “If this guy thought he would get a pay back for the things he had bought me, he would rather go and visit a brothel where people pay for the services given to them,” she laments. Why don’t you ‘the guys’ act gentlemanly to the very end just the way you started the night? Why do you have to risk your dignity in just a minute over something you know you might not even get, and what about the friendship bond that you had created. Robina Umutoni a resident in Remera thinks that it is the women that give men the go ahead attitude. She believes that women can easily tell a person that would make advance t the and o of the day. She says when a guy starts presenting those generous offers, you can clearly see where he is heading and unless you probably enjoy them, you can keep him entertained but if not run for your dear life. Do not live to regret this Christmas season because the signs are there written all over the place if you don’t have company for this, season don’t try to meet people you will have night mare about the rest of your life. Look out for the best person to hang out with if you cannot find any, home is the best place to stay just find the best movies to keep you happy; next time will be better and the fun always come. Laura2jos@yahoo.com