More than three decades after the 1994 Genocide against the Tutsi, Rwanda has undertaken one of the most profound national reconstruction efforts of modern times. A country once devastated by violence has invested enormous political and social energy into rebuilding institutions, restoring trust, and redefining citizenship beyond colonial engineered ethnic labels. Within Rwanda itself, this transformation has been visible in both policy and public discourse. The emphasis on a shared national identity (Ndi Umunyarwanda) reflects a deliberate national effort to move beyond the divisions that once tore the country apart. Yet outside Rwanda’s borders, among some segments of the diaspora, ethnic identity continues to shape how Rwandans perceive and relate to one another. Understanding why requires revisiting the history of imposed identity politics and examining how narratives travel across borders and generations. The colonial roots of ethnic categorisation The rigid ethnic identities that later became politically explosive in Rwanda were not inevitable features of society. Their modern form was largely constructed during the colonial period, when European administrators and missionaries introduced racial theories that categorised Rwandans into fixed groups. Through censuses, identity cards, and education policies, colonial authorities transformed what had once been more fluid social distinctions into rigid political identities. These classifications gradually hardened over time, shaping access to power, education, and opportunity. The legacy of this social engineering did not disappear with independence. Instead, it continued to influence political discourse and collective memory for decades. Diaspora and the preservation of historical narratives Large diaspora communities often emerge from moments of upheaval, and Rwanda is no exception. Many Rwandans who left the country during different waves of political crisis carried with them memories of conflict, displacement, and loss. Diasporas frequently preserve historical narratives long after the societies they left behind begin to transform. Distance from home can freeze perceptions of the past, particularly when those perceptions are reinforced within close-knit communities abroad. For some members of the Rwandan diaspora, the country they remember is not the Rwanda that exists today. Yet those earlier experiences continue to shape how they interpret the identities of fellow Rwandans. The influence of exile politics Diaspora spaces can also become arenas for political contestation. In the Rwandan case, some political activism abroad continues to frame Rwanda’s past and present primarily through ethnic lenses. In the age of digital media, these narratives circulate widely. Social media platforms, advocacy networks, and politically motivated commentary can amplify simplified interpretations of complex historical events. For younger members of the diaspora who did not personally experience the tragedies of the past, such narratives may become their primary reference point for understanding Rwanda and their fellow Rwandans. The power of inherited stories Identity is shaped not only by lived experience but also by the stories communities tell about themselves. Family histories, political conversations, and community narratives all influence how individuals interpret the past. If these stories continue to emphasise ethnic suspicion or collective grievance, they inevitably shape how people perceive one another. Over time, inherited narratives can become as powerful as lived experience. Within Rwanda, sustained national efforts have sought to transform these narratives and emphasise shared citizenship. Outside the country, this transformation is understandably less uniform. Bridging the gap between perception and reality It would be misleading to portray the diaspora as a single community defined by division. Many Rwandans abroad maintain strong connections to the country and actively embrace the vision of unity that has guided Rwanda’s recovery. However, where ethnic perceptions persist, they often reflect the endurance of historical narratives rather than the realities of contemporary Rwanda. For younger generations of Rwandans in the diaspora, there is a unique opportunity to move beyond inherited frameworks. Greater engagement with Rwanda (through visits, dialogue, and cultural exchange) can help reconnect perceptions with the country’s ongoing transformation. A shared future beyond inherited labels Reconciliation is not confined by geography. It is a continuous process that requires confronting history while refusing to remain imprisoned by it. Rwanda’s experience over the past three decades demonstrates that societies can move beyond deeply entrenched divisions. The same possibility exists for Rwandans wherever they live. As advised during the recent X-Space I participated in, we need many people to address the issue and support one another. The challenge (and the opportunity) is to ensure that future generations define themselves not by categories imposed by history, but by the shared identity that binds all Rwandans together.