(Let's Chat with Bella) Being the kind of woman he needs you to be

Men also love shopping. Only that they shop in a particular places and for one particular commodity - women. Most guys will admit that in life there comes a time when they feel the need to ‘purchase’ this commodity; but shopping for it can be one major task. 

Wednesday, October 23, 2013

Men also love shopping. Only that they shop in a particular places and for one particular commodity - women. Most guys will admit that in life there comes a time when they feel the need to ‘purchase’ this commodity; but shopping for it can be one major task. 

Men have confessed to coming across both counterfeit and genuine commodities. The tricky bit with this unique commodity is telling the difference between the genuine and the counterfeit. Some of the counterfeit are very convincing while others are considered an unworthy venture on sight.  

However it does not take too long to tell them. Some of the counterfeit have crazy and unrealistic demands. This woman will borrow money, issue threats or traumatize a man every chance she gets for no particular reason.  

Are you shopping for the right woman in your life?  You may want to consider the following shopping list. 

A woman with dignity is priceless. Her character is priceless. The man that finds her finds confidence and value in her. This is the kind of a woman who will not fight about working or being in the kitchen; this is a woman who even though they occupy the most senior positions in the office will still respect her male counterparts and maintain a professional outlook. 

This is the same woman who walks home from work in the evening and hangs her titles at the door and becomes a wife and a companion to her husband, mother to her children and good master to her house help. This is a woman who will prepare special meals and serve her husband, this is a woman who will not compete with her man but be his supporter and number one fan. 

This is a woman who can’t stomach a separate account. This is a woman who would not mind investing in a house or land for the sake of her family. This is a woman who will not wear a long face when her man’s relatives visit. This is a woman who will work to stay beautiful for her man. This is a woman who will cause a positive impact in another’s life and bring out the best in them.  

This is a woman who is clothed with strength and dignity, a woman who speaks with wisdom. This is a woman who minds the affairs of her household and is never idle. This is woman who is not deceptive but beautiful at heart.

Are you that woman?