You see, when you choose to be the other woman you have to be very careful because not only have you confirmed it to yourself that you are not worthy of the ring but you have also given that man the opportunity to have his cake and eat it too!And before I go on, let me point out that if ever he had to choose, it would be that person that managed to get him to put a ring on it and not you.  Please understand that I am not here to judge anyone although I’m currently rolling my eyes at whoever I ever catch with my boyfriend. Now, do you remember when he told you he would leave her when the time was right and that at the moment things were a bit too complicated?  Well I’m glad you know that it was a hoax, because things shall forever be complicated, while you continue to dish out your goods to him. Again I repeat, Karma is a @#*&%... before you embark on this journey of fooling around with someone’s husband stop and think about the consequences. Of course the easiest punishment is when you are given a taste of your own pill when you get your own hubby. But that’s rather juvenile of me to say, the money maker is a jerry can of acid. Enough said.  I’m even puzzled, what the hell are you still doing with someone who tells you not to call them after eight? Wait, the killer is when he is with the madam and they walk right past you without so much as a hello and then he calls later to apologise and naturally, you forgive him.So just in case he decides it’s over, then what? Or what if he decides to leave his wife for you? Then what? Well good for you, hope he does not do the same to you. This Kind of reminds me of the sitcom FRIENDS where Barry, Rachel’s fiancé slept with Mindy, Rachel’s best friend and maid of honour, then broke up with Rachel and dated Mindy and then cheated on Mindy with Rachel. Hilarious I tell you! So be very careful what you wish for.Let it never be said that I blame women for some men’s infidelity because it might seem like I’m addressing the women here but that’s primarily because I have grown up to appreciate that women are the mature ones and more intelligent and they shall do the right thing when their feminine instincts kick in. My hope only lies in women. And don’t dare call me a radical feminist.