KIBS… She clings to her past

Hello Dr. Innocent I want to thank you for the advice you are giving us. It has really been of help! However, I have a big problem. There is this girl that I like but she is still a victim of her past relationship! She is afraid of moving on and she still wants her ex-boyfriend back but the guy has moved on! Doctor, what should I do to make her see what I am seeing? She likes me but she is confused.Fred UNILAK

Monday, April 25, 2011

Hello Dr. Innocent
I want to thank you for the advice you are giving us. It has really been of help! However, I have a big problem. There is this girl that I like but she is still a victim of her past relationship!

She is afraid of moving on and she still wants her ex-boyfriend back but the guy has moved on! Doctor, what should I do to make her see what I am seeing? She likes me but she is confused.
Fred UNILAK

Hello Fred,

Thank you so much for appreciating my efforts. I am happy that I am making a difference. To your problem, it so sad that many people have not discovered the key to a happy relationship; love those who love you! That’s the simple secret but it is hard to implement.

Talk to your girl about this. Share with her the truth! Tell her that you are the one that loves her and make her understand that what you are saying is real.

I believe that with time, she will get over it. People need to understand that love is magical.

If someone does not like you, no matter what you do, it makes no difference. They will love because you have convinced them! Fred, if you are sure that she likes you then go for her!

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