Dr. Innocent,

I appreciate what you are doing because you are mending so many relationships but how I only wished you had a radio show. Why don’t you start one anyway?  My problem Doctor is that there is this guy who has completely intoxicated me…I think I love him so much but I just can’t say it to him because in our culture, girls do not pursue guys for dates. Help! What must I do? I’m stuck!

Lyse

Hello Lyse,

You are not the first person to ask for my radio program and it is something I am looking into once opportunity arises. Turning to your problem, I must say love is something big to talk about especially when a girl loves a guy and the guy does not know.

Love is more than words! It’s about action and this is the secret many people do not know. If you really love this guy as you are saying, there is no need to tell him this. Just try to put this into action. For example, all men love care; so just take care of him but also ignore him a lot because he may take you for granted and this will hurt you.

Just try to be there for him and communicate as often as possible. Find out his hobbies and try engaging in them. I would also recommend that you to find out his weakness and try to see how you could benefit from it. Otherwise I believe that the little I have told you will be of great help. Wish you all the best of luck.

Dr. Innocent (innocent250@gmail.com)