Hello Dr,

I have this fine babe I have been chasing for some time now. There is this other guy who also is chasing after her and now she seems to be confused. She is choiceless! What can I do?

Andre ETM2

Hello Andre,

You must be in a serious dilemma. You have not told me whether you told her about your feelings but I will assume you did. My advice to you is that ladies are like soft bread!

You give them time, they grow molds. True some girls do not know what they want or, they are just too smart for you. You should give this babe space to find out her stand.

She could have interest in you but simply just trying to find a way of pushing the other guy away. Giving her time to make up her mind will work for you.

Ladies (I mean serious ones) love guys who give them breathing space so that they can make an independent decision. Just try to change the tactics.

Do not always speak about your feelings instead try to be simple as long as you know what you want and pursue that. In the end, you will see what will happen.

Dr. Innocent Ninsiima