Hello Doctor,

There is this chic that I have expressed my feelings to but does not feel me. Even when I compliment her, she just laughs it off and tells me that I need to be serious because she does not believe me. What should I do to make her believe in me?

Alex

Dear Alex,

Women are some of the most delicate people to deal with hence the saying, ‘Give them all your attention but try to understand them less!’

This is because you can never fully understand a woman. The reason why this chic does not feel your vibe is because it looks like you are not very sharp. Try out something new like talking less but doing more.

The swag you pull on her determines the reaction she gives you. For example; if you have been telling her that she looks smart as a compliment, stop it! I mean for a while and buying her gifts and take her out for coffee or lunch.

The more time you spend together, the more she trusts you. That will definitely be the turning point in your relationship. Hope this will help you as you strive to get hooked up!

Dr. Innocent Ninsiima