Dear Counsellor,

I suffered a miscarriage six months ago and things got so complicated that I was told I may never have kids. The news was devastating. My husband and I have never been the same since. We barely talk. He comes up with every possible excuse to stay away from home. When he comes back he goes straight to bed. One day he came back drunk and said he blames me for our misfortune. It hurt me. I have tried to talk to him but he gives me the silent treatment. I am suffering too and need my husband more than ever. But I think he resents me and our marriage is really shaky. I can’t do anything to reverse our fate; I wish I could, for the sake of my marriage because it seems he wants kids more than anything. How can I fix this?

Anna