KIBS…..I want her back

Hello Dr Innocent I had a girlfriend; we dated for almost one year, in March this year, she assured me that it was over for no obvious reason. After, I fell in love with another lady. Even though I am in love with the new one, my feelings for the first girl are so strong. A few weeks back I felt that I couldn’t continue with the new girl.

Hello Dr Innocent

I had a girlfriend; we dated for almost one year, in March this year, she assured me that it was over for no obvious reason. After, I fell in love with another lady. Even though I am in love with the new one, my feelings for the first girl are so strong. A few weeks back I felt that I couldn’t continue with the new girl.

I have tried my level best to forget her but my feelings are so strong. I don’t want to get another girlfriend apart from her. What worries me most is that she got to know about my relationship with the other lady who still loves me. What can I do?
Junior

Hello Junior,

We should always try to differentiate between our feelings and reality. This is one point many people have missed in their lives and have ended up regretting some of the decisions they have made. It seems that you are still a victim of your past. However you do not tell me how your new catch is treating you!

One thing I do not get is whether you are considering her feelings. Well, I would advise you to first find out if your ex-girlfriend still has feelings for you.
You may rush to make a decision, and subsequently lose out on both ends.

Clear your mind and think straight. Just go back to the drawing board and try to analyze things from the core bottom. Take your time and am sure you might find that the decision you were about to take is not the best.  

Try as much as possible to be honest not only to your feelings but also your future because you are choosing someone you are going to spend a potion of your life with. It doesn’t matter what you want; what matters is what you deserve.

Dr. Ninsiima Innocent
(innocent250@gmail.com or call 0783323024)