Who exactly is Mr. Right?

I’ve always wondered who or what Mr. Right is like. I can say now that I’ve never found out. What I’m sure of is that right means correct, no fault or flaw, perfect. Now all I want to know is where the hell you find such a man?
Finding a man with all the qualities you like is like trying to grab air
Finding a man with all the qualities you like is like trying to grab air

I’ve always wondered who or what Mr. Right is like. I can say now that I’ve never found out. What I’m sure of is that right means correct, no fault or flaw, perfect.

Now all I want to know is where the hell you find such a man? Planet Mars maybe, because here on earth would be the biggest lie. Women are out there trying to find this man but I’m afraid that most of them will die trying.

Women today will tell you how they are waiting for Mr. Right. To some of these ladies this man is supposed to be very handsome, educated, well-spoken, stylish with lovely features like muscled body, rich, generous, kind, with impressive sexual prowess, honest, great sense of humor, loving, non-cheat, great with kids and a whole lot of other ‘rights’.

If somebody knows where to get such a character, kindly fill us in. If there’s one then there’s got to be plenty more where he came from. It’s insane.

But Justine Mutamba 20, a student at … says Mr. Right exists.  Her Mr. Right only has to look like ‘Mario Cimarro’, better known as Salvador Cirenza in the Mexican soap opera ‘Second Chance’.

“If he can be that handsome then the rest doesn’t matter because I won’t be ashamed to move with him in public,” says Mutamba. Whereas Mutamba finds looks as the most important feature a man can have, others will disagree.
For Sharon Kananura, 24, a cashier at Nakumatt, food comes first.

Kananura says that, “looks won’t put food on the table, let alone a roof over my head.

“A man has to have a good job so that he can be able to support me. That is my Mr. Right,” she said.

But I have always thought that Mr. Right should be that guy you love with all your heart and the best thing about it is that he loves you right back. He doesn’t have to be a photocopy of David Beckham or have deep pockets either.

You could have all the money in the world, all the power and glamour and still never be happy. Isn’t it more important to be happy and healthy? What sort of Mr. Right batters you all day long and doesn’t give you the slightest respect all because he is the one who gives you everything you want…matierialistically.

There’s not a man on this planet that has all the qualities we want. It’s not possible. Men who look like those Calvin Klein underwear models are so great to look at but will make any woman’s heart literally unsettled every time he’s out of your sight!

Others beg to differ. Immaculate Umwiza, a second year student at School of Finance and Banking says looks are very important, character can come later. 

“People may call me crazy but the perfect Alpha male can be created. Looks matter as they are there to stay, character however is a choice that can change if a man chooses to. Too bad if he is bad mannered but when his mannerism changes, then you’ll be looking at Mr. Right straight in the eye,” Umwiza explained.

Date them if you dare but just make sure you’re strong and secure. Expecting this great looker to be a fantastic cook, great dancer and the funniest thing since Bernie Mac all in one is just asking for too much, honestly.

Mr. Right exists and he’s all over the place. What doesn’t is the guy you wish did! It doesn’t matter if he looks like Shrek because he could turn out to be your knight in shinning armor.

And the one who actually looks like a knight in shinning armor turns out to be the wrongness of all wrongs!

cjanzi83@yahoo.co.uk

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