Is cyber flirting cheating?

Yes, in every way. Most people think that you can only be guilty of cheating if you’re having an affair with another person who’s not your spouse or partner. That is so wrong. There are so many ways in which you can cheat and you won’t even know it.

Yes, in every way.

Most people think that you can only be guilty of cheating if you’re having an affair with another person who’s not your spouse or partner. That is so wrong. There are so many ways in which you can cheat and you won’t even know it.

We all know how the Internet is used to interact with all sorts of characters around the globe. People chat and create friendships and relationships through these internet websites. I think that is okay, but what would a person who’s involved be doing flirting with someone on the web?

Flirting to some people may seem harmless especially if it’s just online and you have no plans of ever meeting up with this person. But I can tell you now that it is very wrong.
If it is harmless, why would someone not want their partners’ to find them at it?

They will try to be as discreet with their chatting sessions as they can because they know they are doing something wrong.

Sending each other naughty emails or asking yourselves questions whose answers neither of you have any business knowing is a recipe for trouble. When you’re chatting, the flirting will get heavier and you will be thinking about this person long after you’ve left the computer.

I am not saying that people who are involved shouldn’t be interacting with people on the net. If what you’re looking for is a friend then that’s great but stay away from flirting. You have a partner who you can flirt with as much as you want.

Now you’re wondering how you can flirt with your spouse! Flirting isn’t for strangers only. Couples can flirt with each other; this helps to keep the relationship exciting.

When you flirt with people on the Web, it keeps you wondering what they are like and before you know it you’ll be arranging to meet real soon. The minute you meet, those naughty chats you shared will be put into action.

Even if you never get to meet, the flirting can get so intense that you’ll be intrigued by this person. Then you’ll find yourself thinking about that person more than you should and if that’s not cheating then I don’t know what is.

Whether it is just in your head, it is still cheating. It might sound hard to some people but try to avoid flirting or any other inappropriate behavior if you are seeing someone.

If your involved and you feel like your love life sucks, alas, the Internet has so many websites you could visit to bring the fire back into the relationship. Leave the flirting for the singles please.

cjanzi83@yahoo.co.uk

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