There is this hot chick is my shule that I feel. Am so crazy about her but I can not tell her because she is a class above me. When I have tried to approach her, she calls me “petit”. I love her so much and I believe this not a crush. I feel its real love. What should I do?
I truelly do understand how you feel. This “babe” is in your school and not of your level? So, why not change levels? Nooo..... don’t drop out of class. Just join her level, by saying “hi”. Do it every time you meet her and with a smile of course. By the way, try to hold yourself together; don’t lose it by fumbling or stammering. Confidence is the key.
The “hi” should break the ice, and eventually you will start talking, maybe your levels will then be equal. The thing is, as I always advise, it’s natural to feel drawn to someone but never let any feelings mess up your studies. And bouncing from such a thing isn’t necessarily the solution.
Make her your friend and who knows, you might realize that she is not that cool. About her calling you “petit”, just ignore it!!
Just remember not to spend mob time thinking about her or practicing ways to say hi, at the expense of your class work. That’s like tripping with your future.
Dr. Ninsiima Innocent