Society debate; Do Cheats Deserve a Second Chance?

Definately NO! Simply never allow a cheat back in your life! Did they accidentally fall on top of the other person naked? Or was it a coincidence that she was falling when he tripped? A person who cheats isn’t only sending a message to you that you’re incomplete, but that they painfully lack self control. Don’t get me wrong, it’s not that I’m passing judgment, it’s just that a love relationship is something more complicated that just emotions.

Definately NO!

Simply never allow a cheat back in your life! Did they accidentally fall on top of the other person naked? Or was it a coincidence that she was falling when he tripped? A person who cheats isn’t only sending a message to you that you’re incomplete, but that they painfully lack self control.

Don’t get me wrong, it’s not that I’m passing judgment, it’s just that a love relationship is something more complicated that just emotions.

As a matter of fact, I advised lovers to forgive when they are betrayed by their mates, but also dump them immediately.

Personally, I believe that a decision concerning a lifelong partner must be taken with the utmost authority, knowing that a wrong decision could turn your life into an eternal nightmare.

If this lady/gentleman was able to cheat on you while you were just dating, how much more will they do it when you are married to them when it’s hard to let them go?

A man who cheats will often stay in touch with that other woman, a woman who cheats will always be vulnerable to that other man’s advances. I’ve heard that there are very many forms of cheating such as emotional, psychological cheating, I will concetrate on the you-know-what; sexual infidelity.

A friend of mine once confessed to me that his girlfriend had cheated on him while she was drunk. She confessed to him that she had got pregnant with the other man’s child, but she wanted to make things right between them.

She seemed so serious that you could almost think she would die if he let her go. However, instead of giving him advice, I just looked up a phone number of a nice girl I knew and gave it to him to start a new life with someone else.

There are weird things that can be tolerated in a relationship, but when it comes to infidelity, it’s much more complicated.

First of all, before they accepted to go under the sheets with another person, had you first refused to sleep with them? And if so, couldn’t they just put their libido on hold until you come by with a favorable decision?

You should always know that you deserve better as a person. If you are able to respect your mate by staying faithful, but they pay you back with uttermost disrespect, then they don’t deserve you.

I mean, you may also have had temptations to sleep with a hot girl, but because you chose to respect your partner, you ignored her advances.

If you however make the mistake of letting that cheating person back into your life, you are always going to feel inferior.

You are always going to be compared with that other person- how good you in bed, how caring you are, how humorous you are.

Generally, you will have begun a life of mess, which you could all whisk away with one scream, “Get out of my sight!!”

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