TEMBEA : Why do I seem to only attract the married?

The guys that purse you talk to you daily but they have someone else in the picture yet they still seem to find you as equally attractive. Has it ever occurred to you that you only turn heads of the married in some way yet you know they will not have much time for you even when they claim to want you around?

The guys that purse you talk to you daily but they have someone else in the picture yet they still seem to find you as equally attractive. 

Has it ever occurred to you that you only turn heads of the married in some way yet you know they will not have much time for you even when they claim to want you around?

Are you the type that thinks you have actually seen enough of those male beings and so you conclude you can not get any serious relation ship with them?

Suzanne Ngabonziza now married with two fine kids says at one time she thought she had met her perfect match only to discover that the guy actually had a fiancé he intended to marry very soon.

She wanted to ask the guy to drop his fiancé for her but this was completely out of question she decided she had to give up on the whole idea of dating but she needed a companion just like many of us do.

She did go out with several other people with hope she will find her soul mate but they had the same stories every guy she met seemed to have his heart somewhere else and so could not commit to her.

Suzanne adds that the most surprising thing is that when the guy comes around he claims he does not have any other person but when you confront him about it, he declares his love for you no matter his being in a relationship with another.

Steven Carter and Sokol Carter in their book “He is scared, she is scared” wrote that, in a case like this it could be you that has the problem and not the people you think you date.

It could be true that may be you only find the wrong people, only those that are not available but it could be you with the problem.

You might discover that all the single men you meet don’t seem to be serious, they are practically interested in playing games and they stop at that.

Try to assess your self, find out if you are not the problem and if you discover your self stay away from the married people because they never seem to have extra space for you his family will always be his priority and yet you would not wish to come second.

You do not want to be the reason for his quarrels and fights at home. Therefore, be patient, with time the right person will come your way.

Laura2jos@yahoo.com

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