Keeping the relationship in circles of happiness could help in maintaining and keeping it stronger for others to admire. It could also be a measure that could change those with negative mentality and attitude about relationships and marriage.
However, there is always a challenge for long time partners to keep or maintain the care for each other. Apart from a few, it is also a fact that this comes as partners ignore the simple tricky techniques previously used in making the relationship perfect.
For those who will not be able to uphold certain characters to making the bond stronger, there will always be changes for the worst. This is when the many times one used to call are reduced to the least or even claiming to have forgotten, time will become limited on claims of being over worked in the office and a lot more..
Of course not every long existing couple will experience the challenge, but those who suffer are hit hardest and regret the choice.
It is very important to maintain the outings with that lady to the very first places you visited with her. Or even change to other better places as it keeps the memories of the past and focuses on the bright future of the couple, says Claudine a mother of two.
“The different places partners hanged out the very first time they met have a lot to mean in the relationship. These places will also remain a reminder of the promises which the two made to each other,” she adds.
She however noted that it’s not only the places but also the care for each other that should remain appetizing like before despite the age or changes in lifestyle.
Jean Claude, 28, said caring in a relationship should not be the responsibility of one partner. He explained that “Efforts to maintain the relationship in any form is not in any way a responsibility for one party.”
“Changes in life can never be avoided, but often some partners believe in respecting their feelings than anything else in life.”
He pointed out that love is never the same stressing that things change with time although good pretenders try making it appear the same way.
“There will always be changes not only in relationships but in almost every thing that people engage in. This might result from either change in economic or social life,” he said.
He however admitted that some come up with intended excuses after winner others which leading to broken hearts.
Be care full, take care of partners and stand strong to resist the changes that may ruin the good relationship.