If women had the ability to understand a man’s mind, we would never again wonder whether he was deeply in love with us as were with them.
Men with no doubt are mysteries to women. We sometimes want to believe that men think the same way we do but that is a mistake, a big one at that.
We love hearing our men say how much we mean to them and that is why we are so quick to utter out those small words of ‘I love you’ early in a relationship and when we fall in love we do so wholeheartedly.
Men don’t think the same way about love as we do. A man will not tell a woman he loves her until he is very sure about what he feels.
Those words do not easily slip off a man’s tongue as smoothly as they do with a woman, and in fact some men would never say them at all.
However when you try to understand your man very well, you will know if he loves you even when he does not utter out those words of ‘I love you’.
A man in love will want to spend time with someone he adores he will even go out of the way to make her life easier. If your man tries to do all it takes to make you happy then he probably loves you.
Men also look at commitment from a different angle unlike women. Men tend to look far into the future than women do. When we realize things are going on well for us the next thing on our mind is the ring, the beautiful dress, the gorgeous wedding and the happy life ever after.
To a man it is about the kids and the tuition fees that will come later when the children are old enough to go to school.
To understand a man you should know that a man just does not want to settle down and pop out the question until he is very certain he can take good care of you in whatever way and that usually translates into financial stability.
If your man is telling you he is not ready to walk down the aisle just know he wishes the two of you to have a good strong well established future, you don’t have to rush him.
Money to buy the wedding gown and organize the wedding will be accessible at the moment but what about life after the wedding… you do not have to rush things simply because you think you are ready for marriage. Give it time to mature and this way you have ample opportunity to discover yourselves.
Just know you cannot push him to say he loves you before he decides he is certain he does; if he loves you he will say it or even show it with much ease.