Many times, some partners take the responsibility to ask others where they are, when they will be back, what they doing and many other matters of concern depending on how one feels contented. People or partners recognize this differently, although it may depend on how one inquiry’s, to know what, where and when the partner will get back, it is all about being responsible and caring about each other. A male or female may be forced to think in an opposite direction when such inquiries come-up when a partner realizes its becoming late. This is more scaring when it happens for the fast time ever in a relationship. As it raises guilty if a partner is engaged in wrong acts, it as well raises suspicion for the responsible partner hence more inquires. Containing such a situation is tactical as both partners have suspected each other. However, it has no effect for a partner to inquire the where about for his or her dear one, unless there is lack of trust amongst them. When a beloved gives another a call as he or she realizes it’s becoming late, it is important to appreciate how caring your sweetie is. Although it may be perceived with another message based on how one address it, it is sometimes based on the feelings and other unexplainable issues all together. “Where are you at this time…? I thought you are meant to be at home by now...?” such questions have meaning but the way they are phrased may force a partner to think differently about where and what you think he or she is taking part in. Instead, more questions will arise from the opposite direction, mostly if the one asked feels is the most chairing of the relationship. “How can you back at me...?” might be the response. It’s realized that the meaning and responsibility one wanted to express have turned out to loose meaning instead undermining one another. For that case, understand and considering how one feels about the absence of another is necessary. This will help to simply absorb such questions depending on how one understands the meaning of his or her absence to the partner. “Hi dear, it’s becoming late will you be back soon,” Betty a mother of two said such expression will be better to use when one has delayed to come home. However, she added that it depends on the time as it is hard for her to say it’s becoming late when it very late. She advised therefore that it’s equally important to notify the one at home about the cause of the delay before a partner calls to inquire, insisting that it causes suspicion. Email: bab_su@yahoo.com
