She’s into you if …

It’s that first date, fellas –that time when people that otherwise used to be comfortable drinking straight out of a fat Primus bottle from the neighborhood Alimentation now see it prudent to upgrade to a candle-lit, several course dinner.

It’s that first date, fellas –that time when people that otherwise used to be comfortable drinking straight out of a fat Primus bottle from the neighborhood Alimentation now see it prudent to upgrade to a candle-lit, several course dinner.

The first date usually brings along with it that touchy situation where neither of you have any idea what each other is really like in person and you’re trying to “feel” each other out a little bit. Well, if she is into you, she will definitely give off signals to that effect; you just have to be able to open your eyes and recognise said signals …

The cell phone

If she is off her cell phone and really focused on you, she’s definitely into you. Girls love their phones so much that some have actually gone ahead to attempt to have these gadgets surgically attached to one of their body parts, preferably the hand. If she’s not on the phone, not thinking about it, not asking if you are on WhatsApp!, and just having a great conversation with you, you’re off to a good start.
 
The cute laugh

I don’t know about you, but I’m pretty much sure every girl has a cute laugh. But almost all girls also own an annoying laugh to go with their cute smiles. But, on a first date, they’re not comfortable with you enough yet to let the annoying one loose. If you get the cute one that’s a little restrained but makes them sound adorable, she’s clearly into you.
 
She’s talkative


We all know how women can be nervous and timid at first, especially on a first date. If she’s chatter-boxing, she’s into you, or at least has the potential of getting into you. The idea here is that with a talkative date, you don’t have to force life, so to speak –definitely no need to be on the constant lookout for new and interesting topics because she’s interested in what you two are talking about.
 
The smile

Now this one is a little hard to explain, on account of my limitations with language, yet is the easiest to grasp. Girls have got this smile-with-an-eye thing; you know …how they can smile and then they do this thing with their eyes and they look away for a second. Any girl who is into any guy does it and every female knows exactly what I mean. Once she does that …
 
She’ll sit facing you

This is the final test at the end of your night. Take her to an eating place or decent hangout after dinner, and this should be a quiet place –to facilitate further talking. If you are sitting at the bar and she is sitting tilted towards you, she’s clearly into you. Now you’re most likely not getting whatever was on your prayer list on that very first night, but who cares?

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