(Let's Chat with Bella) Men are hunters, let them hunt you

When growing up, it was totally unacceptable to ask a man out. It was the men’s job to do that. However, as time went by, things changed. Some brave men and women said enough was enough. 

When growing up, it was totally unacceptable to ask a man out. It was the men’s job to do that. However, as time went by, things changed. Some brave men and women said enough was enough. 

So much has changed today, however I think women have gone a little bit too far. With lines like what a man can do a woman can do better, it should come as no shock. 

 

But men are wired to hunt; they are not the kind of species that waits for things on a silver platter. Men have an intrinsic need to take charge and be in control.

 

It is a fact that women cannot completely function without men. Every woman desires to be loved and given attention.  But note that when it is done by fellow women, it does not yield the same results as when it is done by a man.  

 

Imagine if a lion lay around wondering where prey would come from and a gazelle came around and said, “Here I am, would you like to have me as food?” The lion would be shocked and I doubt it would even consider eating the gazelle. 

That is the same thing that is happening with women today. Ladies, patience pays, wait for the man to come to you. Men lose interest when a woman comes to them and asks for a date. 

If only men and women would learn their roles in relationships then we would not have such complicated relationships. Give a man an opportunity to call you and send you texts, let him buy you flowers and walk you home, allow him to pay your fare or even open and close the door of the car for you. Just let him to be the man. Let him walk you home or come pick you up when you are going out on a date. Men do not want to date fellow men donning dresses! 

When a guy you like takes too long to respond to your signs (because sometimes it is it impossible to hide a crush you have on someone) just register a few things in your mind; he either has his attention fixed on someone else or he is just not interested, hence his way of politely turning you down. Not to worry, he probably just wants to monitor you closely. Just try not to do anything that you will regret.

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