Women stare at the opposite sex when out with their partners too, but the biggest offenders are men. It’s disrespectful when a man is with his other half and he lets his nomadic eyes glare at every female around him. You don’t need a degree in psychology to know that this action makes the one you are with feel like she is not a woman enough.
Well, as a man ,I know it’s just human nature for us to admire beautiful things, just like women love looking at shoes ,jewelry and clothes .We also like admiring things like cars, gadgets and of course women. I also know that just because a guy looks at another girl doesn’t mean he wants to jump into bed with her. It’s also that no matter how hard we try, we can’t turn off the brain or our genitalia even when we’re with the woman of our dreams.
If you are single that’s a different story but when in a relationship, just train your eyes on your toes and do the best you can with the woman you have. If you don’t, the moment she catches you staring and drooling, the crime you will be charged with won’t be eyeballing but cheating on her. So it’s only fair that you both tame your eyes when you are out together not only to save your skin but to show her respect.
I think it is natural to notice other physically attractive people, unless one is blind, or dead! Men in particular are very visual beings. If you ask me, I think a man should be pinched only if he is acting flirtatious. Otherwise there is a big difference between admiring and being rude.
However, I wouldn’t be so fast to judge and point fingers if I was a woman. After all, women also check out guys and other similar misdeeds. Let me ask you: Do you enjoy a little male attention, a look, a smile from a man who is not your boyfriend? Does it boost your ego? Make you feel good about yourself? If you’re already with the man of your dreams, why would you still like this?
There are many ways to look at someone. Simply looking does not mean lusting, though it is extremely wise to avoid looking at other women when in a relationship especially if your real mate is with you at the time.
Even if the person is not with you, word gets around and they wouldn’t be too pleased that you were gawking at women.