Don’t fear to spill the beans

It was one of those memorable dates with the man who meant the whole world to her. According to Jessie [not real name], the world revolved around to him. Though she always confessed to him how much she loved him, she never heard, even at any single moment anything like “I love you too”, a response she longed to hear from the mouth of him. Jessie’s was always in thoughts whether this man really loved her, or he was one of the men who enjoy breaking women’s hearts. It wasn’t simple but she took the step of asking her boyfriend if he truly loved her. “Darling, do you really love me,” Jessie asked. Much as she expected a yes or no response, the seemingly surprised boyfriend answered with a trickier question! “Sweetheart, how could you come up with such a question,” he exclaimed. Questions answering questions! Jessie ended up apologizing for having come up with such a question! For most of the questions in love, it’s a boy thing to answer with questions. The highest percentage of guys answers are questions which confuse and make girls feel guilty about what they have asked be it rational or not. Questions are an answer to many mysterious love issues for the opposite sex. “Men are smart. They don’t want to promise what they’ll never deliver,” says Moses Gahigi. Relating to love, girls are so demanding. This is why the boys get scared and they don’t want to raise the girls’ hopes. They would rather confuse you with questions than telling the truth. “To most girls I love you means you have proposed marriage, they will pester you for it or say you’re a player and move on,” says Isaac Mukunzi. Isaac says, answering with questions is mostly for guys who are not ready to commit. They fear being trapped in a relationship just because of mere words that they never meant. “I might like you so much but not love you. And if I confess love to you, you might expect much,” says Mukunzi. According to Sheila Umutesi, guys who answer with questions are time wasters. If a man is only interested in being intimate and sharing cozy moments with a girl, they will settle for the normal routine of answering with questions. “The love and trust questions are sensitive. If a man still wants a girl around he will dodge these questions and the best way to do it is by a question,” says Umutesi. Some men will truly love you but they will answer with questions! There questions that come with surprise. “It’s logical that if my girl asks if I love her she has doubts! This is why I demand to know why and how she has come up with questions,” says Maarif Ineza. According to him, some ladies will fall for whatever they are told. This makes them come up with many nagging and uninvited questions. Meanwhile, some men are not cautious about questions. They will not know if it’s a question meant for an answer or if it’s a plain statement. True love has nothing much to do with questions though questions also carry different meanings. Does he answer with questions? Closely find out why he does. Ends

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Don’t fear to spill the beans