First Lady shares tips with young leaders on building healthy families

The First Lady Jeannette Kagame has challenged faith leaders to make a contribution towards the foundation laid by the national leadership in uniting Rwandans and creating a good atmosphere for healthy families and marriages. Mrs. Kagame was speaking on Saturday during the Young Leaders Conference, organised by the Rwanda Leaders Fellowship (RLF) with the purpose of bringing young leaders in senior positions to fellowship together, pray for the nation and share the Word of God. The breakfast aims at bringing together senior leaders from different sectors for a time of mutual encouragement, edification around the word of God, reflecting on Biblical values and principles that encourage leaders to adopt the culture of patriotism, integrity, diligence and to think about the impact of their leadership to the society. The event brought together people ranging from clerics to ordinary citizens, public and private sector officials who held discussions that focused on building healthy families for a healthy nation. Through an interactive panel discussion, the participants looked at ways of fighting family breakdowns, the need for proper parenting, among other things that are needed in family life. Speaking at the event, Mrs. Kagame reminded the participants of how the tragic history of Rwanda demolished the family institution to the ground, leaving behind a sad narrative that could be turned around by people-centred decisions taken by the current government. “I want to ask you a question as church leaders: What will you do to build on this foundation so that we will have a story that is different from what we had in the past?” she said. The First Lady took time to encourage married people towards faithfulness, maintaining family values, and being exemplary to their children. She rooted for prayer in families, requesting spouses to pray for each other, encourage each other, and not be controlled by anger when making decisions and put God first. “When a husband puts his wife first above everyone and everything except God, it gives his wife the sense of security and honor that every wife hungers for,” she said. Augustin Iyamuremye, the President of the Senate who was the guest of honour also weighed in on the importance of families in nation-building. “It is families that make up a nation, just like cells make up the body. Just imagine this: In the body, if one cell gets sick, the whole body gets affected,” he said. He called upon Rwandans to be united and work for healthy families, and a healthy nation, drawing lessons from the losses incurred in the tragic genocide against the Tutsi. “For us as older Rwandans, we can’t fail to remember where we came from,” he said. “Our country passed through divisionism that stripped people of their humanity to an extent that parents who had to bring up children for the country killed the young ones instead. We started the journey of building a healthy Rwanda by first bringing back the values that had been destroyed by the previous leadership,” he said. Lambert Bariho, a pastor and director of Ellel Ministries Rwanda emphasised to the audience that the family is God’s idea and there is need to involve him in solving its challenges. He urged that many problems in families are caused by the sinful nature of man but there is hope in Jesus, who has overcome sin. “The Bible says that in Christ Jesus, God has resurrected us and made us alive with Him,” he said. Delegates at the Young Leaders Conference at KCC.

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First Lady shares tips with young leaders on building healthy families