Is there a person in your life that whenever you look at her/him your heart skips a bit? Love is such a strange thing and hard to be ignored.
Love can be imperfect and perfect. Love provides wings to fly even when you are in the most terrible situation.
Much as everyone needs love, on several occasions we have failed to express ourselves to our beloved ones simply because we don’t know how to do it.
Lots like this or that guy/girl but they are bleak about how to win them
In abid to pursue love, some people have done gravest mistakes that end up scaring their intended lovers away.
Search yourself, were you rejected because she/he wasn’t meant for you or you did something that irritated them?
Winning someone’s heart isn’t as simple as you may take it however the first date has magic in doing it.
“On my first date with her, I definitely knew I would win her heart,” says Augustine Sano, he has been married for 10 years.
According to him, how one dresses up, behaves and what they say on the first date is really important.
Usually, the first question with first daters is do you have a boyfriend! It sounds normal but it’s such a grave mistake, in most cases girls will tell you they have one when they don’t.
It’s simply reducing them to needy people.
And if they don’t have one, does it mean they will necessarily take you? Rather make the first date simple and interesting than feeling it with so many questions. Say something that will make him or her cherish your company.
“Jean talked of childhood stories that lingered in my mind. I missed him and before I knew it, we ended up marrying,” says Alice Uwera.
Most couples who ended up at the pulpit did something extra-ordinary on their first date.
“A first date is there to show a picture of what it will be like in future,” says Steven Mugema. This explains why simple things in this date mean a lot.
For a first date to result into countless dates, keep it real. Try as much as possible to be yourself.
Forcing that accent which you can’t keep forever will just ruin it all. Other lie in the name of winning people’s hearts which isn’t good. And please, search your heart for the best suitable stories.
“It’s important to know that the date is about the two of you,” says Carol Murungi. She has turned down many second dates just because the first encounter wasn’t the best.
She says, many guys speak of their celebrity friends, of their cars, families and many more unnecessary things at the beginning!
And if you go for that first date, please spare us the pathetic stories about your ex unless they are called for.
Talking ill about your ex moreover on the first date shows how resentful you are and who may want to have a resentful man or woman anyway.
Doing extraordinary things on the first date is memorable. First dates shouldn’t be limited to restaurants and bars.
It can be an evening walk, looking at the stars, camping.
Roses, chocolates and gifts can’t make her/him love you. Draw them helplessly to you on the first date.