Women need to learn the art of communicating to their men. This has been one of the longest standing battles between the sexes. It is one thing to read in between the lines and another to interpret sign language.
A lot of women have mastered and perfected the art of sign language and hinting. Ladies, men do not understand when you go silent in the middle of a conversation just because he said something mean or incorrect.
Men do not understand when you sulk because you saw him give another woman attention. Men do not understand when you just leave him in the middle of the street or on a date because he is not telling you what you want to hear.
Men do not understand that you want attention when you pull away or go cold; this is interpreted as you need space. They will imagine that you are in for the chase. Men do not understand that you need some affection when you sound cranky and jittery. All they hear and see is a nagging woman.
The next time you walk in a shopping mall and hold one item for the longest time, they will not understand that you want them to buy it. Instead, they think women like window shopping and waste a lot of time doing so.
Learn the art of communication. If he’s the slow kind you may need to say the same thing over and over only phrased differently until he gets it.
If he is the sharp kind then just make sure that he gets the details. Men can be very clumsy when it comes to women’s details.
Do not be fooled; they are detailed when it comes to their own things like cars and gadgets but not women stuff.
The next time you think about using sign language, know that you are in that game alone!