Ever been in a relationship and the first thing you are asked is the extent of your sexual encounters? ‘How many guys have you slept with?’ Dude, really? Can’t you ask me about my long term goals or hidden kids instead?
The most annoying part is asking such questions then freaking out when answered–some revelations are truly intimidating! I believe in ‘what I don’t know can’t hurt me’ so I’d rather I didn’t have first hand information on my guy’s sexual prowess stretching from our humble abode to the corners of China! Let his experience speak for itself!
At the start of a new relationship, is a girl doomed to explain how she got drunk once and went home with a chap so ugly that in the morning she felt she’d rather cut off the arm he was drooling on than risk waking him up?
I think its irrelevant .Would you trust the answer anyway? Sure, there was Tommy, then Junior, then Sam, and oh, there was Jackson too, some others in high school and maybe five others I met before you…Who does that?
Unless your partner has an STD and you’re concerned about your sexual health, I’d avoid this question if I were you.
For one, let’s say they are honest with you. Your partner has slept with 16 people and names them all off. They are still friends and others are exes or one night stands. A few of them were pretty hot. This will leave you more insecure than ever… wondering if you’re as good in the sack as they were!
Two, that question will drive you nuts! You’ll ask yourself a multitude of questions about their sexual past. You may even think they are still lying to you— were they more than that?
Don’t do it. It’s so much cooler to be sane! Keep your number a mystery. If your better half insists on asking this irrelevant question, find tricky ways of answering it without actually answering it like, more people have been to the moon or I’m sure they are less than yours!
The most important thing to remember is that you wouldn’t be the person you are and they wouldn’t be the person they are if either of you had different experiences.
I don’t know about you but I believe guys are best served with some experience – virgins and ‘one time hitters’ are no fun at all! Yeah, I said it!