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Do whatever feels good!So the rule is that a woman should not have sex on the first date or give it up too soon. Why? Because she will look cheap to the man she gives it up to and society at large. Who sets such rules? The person who set this rule just didn’t have hormones. Or, it was a man and he wanted everything to himself. Like men, women also crave sex. The urge doesn’t tell us when it will appear or disappear that means we don’t have control over it. Women think of sex as much as men do.
SHARON M. OMURUNG
SHARON M. OMURUNG

Do whatever feels good!

So the rule is that a woman should not have sex on the first date or give it up too soon. Why? Because she will look cheap to the man she gives it up to and society at large. Who sets such rules? The person who set this rule just didn’t have hormones. Or, it was a man and he wanted everything to himself. Like men, women also crave sex. The urge doesn’t tell us when it will appear or disappear that means we don’t have control over it. Women think of sex as much as men do.

It has been said that when a man sees a pretty woman he immediately undresses her in his mind. Well, let me surprise you, women are good at the mind undressing thing too. She imagines what a man is like in bed. those nice images continue until the man does something silly and ruins everything.

This shows that we are just like men. However, when we go for a first date, it is expected of us to play the ‘good’ girl. Never ever bring up the topic of sex. If a man proposes it, a woman should act surprised – how dare he ask for sex? But we all know that after they hook up, they WILL eventually have sex, so what’s the deal?

I think if a woman wants to have sex on the first date, let her do so. It should be a personal choice not what society thinks or wants because society will always judge you anyway.

If a woman can decide when to get married and have a child, why can’t she decide when to have sex?

Whether you give it up on the first day or three months later, there are men who will literally wait for as long as it takes just to get a taste and then run for the hills immediately after!

So, it is not about how long you should wait to have sex but rather what your heart and body desires.

In my view, sex within days of knowing each other is like a test – you need to know whether to stick around or look for someone else - (instead of wasting three months only to realise a snail has more energy than he does).

However, I don’t want anyone to get it wrong. While I am for following one’s heart and body desires, protection is the key. That’s because you don’t know the status of the person you intend to get down with.

 

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