Nine things you should know about your future spouse before getting married

His/ her dreams, ambition and life goals As simple as this seems a lot of people cannot mention at the altar of marriage, what the ambition and goals of their spouse are.
Habits should be known before marriage. Net photo.
Habits should be known before marriage. Net photo.

His/ her dreams, ambition
and life goals

As simple as this seems a lot of people cannot mention at the altar of marriage, what the ambition and goals of their spouse are. Does he want to keep working in that company, does she dream of starting her own firm?

His /Her family and lineage

It is also very important to have full knowledge of the family you are marrying into or marrying from, their medical history, traditions or myths. This is really very important for the health of the marriage as new discoveries might end the marriage.

His/Her take on marriage

An individual’s take on marriage is also very important. A man for example might have a different perceptive to having an on/off affair with a third party for the fulfillment of an immediate need while that may not go down well with the spouse.

His/Her take on children and relatives

The number of children and the timing is something prospective couples have to sit down and trash out before they proceed. The timing is very important for working women. The place of relatives in the marriage also has to be decided.

Blood group/Genotype

It is medically very important to know the blood group of your spouse so as to know if you are actually medically compatible.

Habits and personality

Smoking, drinking e.t.c… habits should be known before marriage as there might be something that might break the marriage.

His/Her ex’s and children

Most times people go into marriage blinded by the fact that their spouse has an ex and there is a reason the relationship didn’t work out. You know what goes around comes around.

His/Her flaws

It is important to understand your spouse’s flaws as most people don’t really change, so you have to live with it.

His/Her priorities

Everybody has priorities and it is very important to know what is most important to your spouse and if you can live with that.

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