Dear It’s a Guy Thing,
I have sort of been talking to a guy for a few months now and I like him but he has this strange habit of only talking to me at night. During the day or weekends, he doesn’t call me.
We have only been on one date and whenever I propose a night out, something always comes up last minute. My friends insist he has someone else but I want to believe he is better than that. What do you think?
There is a saying that I think is extremely pertinent here. ‘If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, IT IS A DUCK’. I rarely give much credence to friends’ advice, simply because if our friends had their way, we would remain single and available to hang out with them. However, in this instance, I’m taking their side.
He sounds way too shady. If you are looking for the type of man who will call you for late night booty calls, then he is the right man. However, if you are looking for a boyfriend, then I suggest that you look for another candidate. This one is bad news.