May be he/she is not as fun, exciting or awesome as they used to be or they have changed along the way or maybe the relationship has just developed a routine way of doing things that’s just so drop-dead boring and dull. The usual alternative that we always opt for is to blame one another, yet for romance to begin, it was because of the mutual attraction that’s between two people. There are several ways of saving a dying romance and funny enough, you might find that one of these activities used to be one of your favorites….. so what happened?
Laughter gives us distance. It allows us to step back from an event, deal with it and then move on. So laugh together at a comedy club; improve the show with your scheming full laughter. Be prepared to play along if the actors pull you on stage at some point during the show.
The easygoing and fun you will once again be portrayed in and that night will be a reminder to your partner the reason why they fell in love with you in the first place. They won’t be able to stop talking about their partner with the wonderful sense of humor.
Learn to dance different dancing style
Nobody cares if you can’t dance well, just get up and dance. Sign up for an hour of swing dancing classes like salsa or something exciting, yet, challenging like rumba over the weekend. Even if he’s not light on his feet, he’ll enjoy grabbing your waist and twirling you around but make sure that you sign up for couple dance session afterward to get more practice — or as an excuse to keep touching each other ( now who wouldn’t like that).
Go Bungee Jumping
For the ultimate adrenaline rush, get your blood pumping by going bungee jumping. Ask for a double harness, and cling to each other as you soar through the air...just resist screaming in each others’ ear or mouth. Once you survive the experience, your romance is good to go with a renewed hot rush of adventure and spontaneous vacations.
Check Out a Jazz Club
Jazz is a feeling more than anything else…… One of life’s greatest gifts: fun found within surprise, so groove to sensual sounds at a jazz club. Sip martinis at a table of two, and tap your toes to trumpet solos and the thumping of a stand-up bass. You’ll feel sophisticated and relaxed, and in the candlelight, you will both be mesmerized by each others’ attractiveness and sense of togetherness.
Hit Up a Karaoke Bar
My personal favorite; who cares if you look like two love birds or spoilt grownups…..sing your hearts out at a karaoke bar. Down a couple of drinks for courage while you peruse the song list. Belt out a crowd-pleasing favorite together, and then judge everyone else’s performances à la Simon Cowell panel.
Combine powers to form a dream team at trivia night, geek up with your partner. You’ll laugh as you wrack your brains for the capital of Zimbabwe or Chile and bond over your shared knowledge of obscure horror films or animations. If you end up winning, put the prize money toward your next great date as the culture develops.