Men come in different packages and it is easy to fall prey to any package. Maybe it’s his style of clothes, maybe his face or body; it might be his demeanor, his dexterity, his car or even his job. As for the gents, usually the first thing they notice about a lady is her face and figure and the rest come later.
Chemistry is a strange thing and usually, it all starts from a stare and stolen glances here and there until one party gets the guts to approach the other. That is when minds start rolling because the tension is too much trying to figure out what is going on. The look in the eyes is enough to get the ball rolling.
Now, that’s some wicked courage that’s pushing both parties above the limits. Usually, it’s difficult to point at any specific sign that’s lighting up the relationship. But it’s there, the longer, the better. People often have millions of crushes but the fire burns out even before a fortnight. This is because people take less time identifying common interests, areas of rapport or other boring things like that. As expected, the lust builds and away with the relationship.
So, what next? As much as it may require the power of Hermione Granger (from the Harry Potter sequel), do well to stand guard against your emotions and don’t hop into his king-size bed at the first chance you get. You must be thinking now, “This dude is kidding, who wastes such a chance with prince charming in this day and time.”
Several statistics rate today’s youth as the most promiscuous of all time (and are we proud of that title?) even though we haven’t encountered tomorrow’s youth. This is because we believe in satisfying our hormones before feeding our souls. Emotional stupidity over-takes emotional maturity. Nonetheless, the more a girl longs for a dude should be the longer she takes to give up. How hard that is!!
We live in the emancipation era with more women in boardrooms than men which means that today’s women have more power than women of 30 years back. However, women still want men who still pride themselves in being real men. Who will protect, provide, care, respect and honor them no matter the circumstances.
Make a mistake and start dancing to all his tunes, pay his bills, maintain the repairs, don’t be fooled that once you start dating him seriously he’ll change. You got him used to being breast-fed, so continue. If you want a man to take care of you, let him take charge from the start but don’t overdo lest you earn yourself a reputation of being a gold-digger. Take charge of your life in some situations and make some decisions without consulting him.
For all those who have just found their significant other, don’t panic thinking that the limitations are too hard or the way you carry yourself might prompt him to get out of the relationship; if so, then be it. Better an angel you know than a devil you don’t. Instead of staying in a dysfunctional relationship, it’s better to find that he’s a wreck and can’t be repaired whatever the case.
Get someone with good manners and truthful but also does the mind-blowing romantic gestures on birthdays and Valentine’s Day rather than just emails or post cards. Find someone who will stick to his game and keeps his word and above someone who will cherish you.
But when you find one that fits the bill, what is that main reason that you will give for him to stick around?