Abapfubuzi is a local term used for male sex workers. These men, who live in the shadows, don’t hang out or escort their clients to social gatherings or outings. They are strictly ‘sexperts’-hired to give nothing but sexual satisfaction.
I believe that taking up your husband’s name when you get married is a personal preference and I don’t see why it would cause any conflict.
You’ll probably think that my obsession with these Hollywood hotties has ceased being funny but unless your last name is Depp, Reynolds or Ealy, I think I’ll pass. In truth, I think it’s sweet to take on a man’s last name, but it also gives me the sense that I belong to someone…and that is a real problem.
If your man rushes homes from work to watch soap operas, chances are someone or something tampered with his inner default settings. Although this is a free country and a person can do whatever they want to do as long as they are not breaking any law, this kind of behavior in a man, especially in an African man, is deeply worrying.
Men marry women with the hope they will never change. Women marry men with the hope they will change. But do couples change for the better after marriage? Society Magazine’s Martin Bishop asked for people’s views on the issue.